Welcome to Chef Roy’s Blog . .

I feel inspired to tell the story of where I came from, beginning in rural Pennsylvania. From childhood through marriage, life, death, and a thousand moments in between, I want to share the experiences that shaped me—leading me to a career as a personal chef and revealing what continues to drive my work today.

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Adam2 Café

Adam2 Ministries was established in December 2004 and became the umbrella organization for both Adam2 Café and Tabernacle Church. The name Adam2 referenced the second man of creation—Jesus Christ—who, according to 1 Corinthians 15:47, became the second human. He is the first born of a new creation through His resurrection from the dead. There is no greater truth in life than this.

The café operated during the week, serving late breakfasts and lunches, while the church gathered there on Wednesday evenings and Sunday mornings. More than a café or a church space, Adam2 became a hub for the community. It hosted open mics, community events, after-school programs for children, and university music gatherings. It was a unique expression of faith—centered on the life of Christ yet free from much of the traditional religious trappings.

It was here that I began to offer my growing love for the foods I had encountered around the world, sharing them with an expanding circle of regulars. At the time, I had no idea how this chapter would shape the years ahead. In many ways, my time traveling the world with the Kaisers became my culinary education—the equivalent of formal training. Combined with an inherited aptitude for cooking and a deep love for diverse cultures, Adam2 Café quietly laid the foundation for what would become my personal chef business nearly twenty years later.

Who knew?

Tabernacle Church

The first gathering of what would become Tabernacle Church took place on Sunday, September 11, 1988. We were an ambitious group of believers who chose to walk together, though our beginning was shaped by difficult and unexpected circumstances.

Following our resignation from Victory Christian Center, a faithful remnant chose to step into an unknown future with us. In those early days, we met in our home until we were able to secure space in one of the theater-style classrooms at Kutztown University. For a season, we moved from classroom to classroom, searching for something more permanent.

After many months without a place of our own, we finally found a storefront. There, the church took root and flourished in its early years. What followed was a wide range of experiences—some joyful, others deeply painful. While the church never grew large in numbers, what we lacked numerically was more than compensated for in other ways. We were, without question, a family.

It would be impossible—and unnecessary—to recount every detail here, so for the sake of this blog, I’ll focus on a few pivotal moments that help explain how I arrived where I am today.

In April of 1996, Jean and I joined our dear friends Bill and Emogene Kaiser as part of their team that traveled to various locations around the world, hosting conferences for American missionaries. Time of Refreshing was a three-day gathering held in the missionaries’ regions, offering rich times of worship, generous gift-giving, and shared meals. It was an extravagant expression of love, encouragement, and honor for those serving abroad.

We continued this for fifteen years, logging countless miles and being immersed in cultures across Europe, the Middle East, and Southeast Asia. At the time, we didn’t realize how profoundly this exposure—to people, cultures, and cuisines—would shape us. It cultivated a deep love for diverse foods and an even deeper love for God, while also transforming how we understood the church.

Our missionary friends introduced us to the unconventional—new expressions of ministry that stretched our imagination. A desire to walk a less-traveled road began to grow in our hearts. It felt as though we were being rewired for something different, something altogether unfamiliar.

Then, in December of 2004, Adam2 Ministries was born—not out of a church split, but from a deep, inward calling to share the gospel of Jesus Christ in a tangible, lived-out way.

Pennsylvania Homecoming!

We returned to Pennsylvania the summer of 1986. It was amazing to us how we were conditioned by 10 years of Florida’s humidity. In other words, despite Pennsylvania’s hot humid summer, we were very comfortable!

Once again, we were in search of a home. We lived in my mother’s small camping trailer parked on True Life Family Acres, a ministry began by my sister and husband, Carl. It was a community comprised of people who moved in with the Madtes family for personal care. Carl was on the faculty of a local school and met lots of troubled children coming from difficult family situations. Occasionally he would bring them to his home to stay for the weekend. Then the weekends grew into weeks, and the weeks became months. Some became family. True Life became an extension of that care and the property was dedicated to create a family for all ages combining young with the elderly.

During that time, I got a job working at a small logging operation. Yes, you heard me correctly! I was harvesting hardwood trees and cutting logs into lumber at the saw mill a few miles away from our camper home. It reminded me of my job at the box factory in Florida – hard work! I continued working at the lumber mill for about a year when Jean, Rebecca and I relocated to the Fleetwood area.

Around that time, I began working for MetLife selling life insurance and securities. Interesting, right? Cooking, box making, ministry, logging – and now selling life insurance! What can I say? It paid the bills and put food on the table.

Jean had started to bake wedding cakes for everybody and anybody. She was a baker at heart. Her dad bought her a Kitchen Aid mixer as a gift which I still use today 48 years later.

While working for MetLife we started to attend a local church in nearby Kutztown. After a few months passed, the pastor and his wife decided to leave that work and establish a new congregation in nearby Allentown. They appointed us as the new pastors of the ministry in Kutztown and I preached my first message on Easter Sunday in 1988. Things were going well until the former leaders decided to return to take over the work in Kutztown because of problems that closed their new plant in Allentown.

Needless to say, this created a whole new set of problems with Victory Christian Center’s congregation and our role as their new pastor. After four months of serving in this new role, we were bonding with the congregation and strong relationships were forming. But the only thing we could do was to resign from our position and move on with the next step.

I remember seeking counsel from my ordaining body back in Florida and after sharing our predicament with Gerald Derstine, his counsel was clear. His advice was this; if the people were looking to us as their pastors, separate yourself from the church and let the people decide what they wanted.

By the following week, we had 95 percent of Victory Christian Center sitting in our house asking questions about the future. I don’t advise starting a church this way, but this was to become the beginning of Tabernacle Church.

Frostproof, Florida

The three of us moved into a small community on the west side of Frostproof. It was our first home purchase situated along highway 27, a main route north and south through Florida’s heartland. Citrus groves, large expanses of cattle ranches and phosphorous strip mining characterized Frostproof and its surrounding area.

Frostproof Tabernacle had seen better days when we arrived. It was a beautiful structure on 12 acres of prime real estate located on the shore line of Lake Clinch. The congregation dwindled to a total of eight people; eleven if you included the three Zettlemoyers. Needless to say, we had our work cut out for us there in more ways than we could anticipate.

It amazed us as we learned how this culture and community was stuck in time. The two elders of the church referred to people of color using the word that began with an “N”! It was an uphill battle to win the hearts and trust of our new congregation. The church had a history that also put it in a negative light in the community. So, for the first few months, it felt like “us against them”.

Despite this atmosphere, the church began to grow and continued to do so up to the time we left there. My father died in the summer of 1984 and I was feeling a stir to return to Pennsylvania.

There were some bright spots in our lives beyond our family in Frostproof. Floridians know how to cook! We learned all sorts of wonderful dishes there from sweet tea to wild turkey and pigs. Beyond these recipes, we discovered classic dishes like fried chicken, buttermilk biscuits, shrimp and grits, collard greens, and barbecue. Red snapper, grouper, shrimp, scallops, and stone crab—are staples, often grilled, blackened, or in paella. Looking back, I can see how my love for Latin American food has its roots in central Florida.

After ten years in Florida, we decided to return to our own roots and family in Pennsylvania.

Christian Retreat – Life in community

Christian Retreat Conference Center, located just east of Bradenton, Florida, spans 110 acres of paradise carved from wild orange groves along the Manatee River, which winds its way to the Gulf of Mexico. More than a conference center, it is a vibrant blend of community, ministry, and family church life.

After completing the Institute of Ministry, we returned to Christian Retreat in January 1977. With only a few hundred dollars, a car payment coupon book, and all our possessions packed into one vehicle, we arrived hopeful—longing for connection and a place to call home.

We found it, though not without some wandering. For a time, we bounced from house to house across the sprawling campus before finally settling into our own space. God’s faithfulness was evident in every step, guiding us through one experience after another. For brevity’s sake, I’ll share just the highlights.

Jean quickly secured a position in the center’s kitchen as the new baker, while I sought work off campus. Tropicana’s massive plant in Bradenton hired me into their box factory. Each day, our three-man crew clocked in at 6:30 a.m. and labored until 3:00 p.m., producing nearly 100,000 cartons for orange juice. The pace was relentless—machines cranking out 200 boxes every minute. It was grueling, far beyond what I had imagined, and I never expected to work so hard.

By God’s mercy, after two months of box-making I transitioned back to Christian Retreat, joining Jean in the kitchen. My duties ranged from washing dishes and cleaning restrooms to stocking vending machines across campus.

When the dining services director stepped down, a new leader arrived. Upon meeting the kitchen crew, he immediately appointed me his first cook. Though I had no real culinary training, I accepted the role. To my surprise, I discovered a natural aptitude for cooking. Under Fred’s leadership, I was soon recognized as head cook, while Jean continued her amazing baking. Together, we became a strong team, and the kitchen thrived.

Eventually, Fred’s lifestyle proved incompatible with the Christian community, and he was released. Responsibility for dining services fell to Jean and me. Overnight, we were in charge of the entire operation—cooking, baking, and managing staff. I didn’t known I was capable of such work, but with Jean by my side, we flourished.

But I was wrestling with pride. I believed the culinary world was beneath me, convinced I was destined for “greater” things—ministry. I imagined God’s Kingdom as a ladder, with rungs to climb toward higher callings. That attitude was misguided, yet God’s grace prevailed.

In 1979, I was ordained into the ministry and within weeks, I joined the pastoral staff at Christian Retreat, serving alongside Gerald Derstine and four other pastors. My responsibilities shifted dramatically—from cooking meals to coordinating conferences, and concert schedules filled with world-renowned speakers and artists.

During those years, I met believers from across the Christian world—Pat Boone, Tom Netherton, Anita Bryant, the Continental Orchestra and Singers, Costa Dier, Charles and Francis Hunter, Benny Hinn, and many more.

Our daughter, Rebecca, was born one very stormy morning on May 12th, 1980. What an amazing joy she brought into our lives.

Then, in the summer of 1981, we moved to central Florida to pastor our first church in the small town of Frostproof. The transition was jarring—like stepping from the frying pan into the fire. Rural central Florida felt worlds away from anything familiar, like we had left the country altogether.

Christian Retreat – Bradenton, Florida

After completing an intensive 10-week program at the Institute of Ministry, Jean and I returned to Pennsylvania, where I resumed my position at Gaumer’s Plumbing Supply on Allentown’s south side. I remained there for another year and a half.

Gaumer’s was a humble, one-man operation run by Homer Gaumer—a man whose presence was as impactful as his work ethic. Working alongside him felt like earning a graduate degree in both life and faith. Homer had a remarkable way of weaving spiritual insight into the rhythm of our daily tasks, and I absorbed invaluable lessons from him—professionally and spiritually.

About a year after my return, tragedy struck. Homer suffered a fatal heart attack on his way to work. In the aftermath, I stepped in to manage what remained of the business, doing my best to keep it going. But as the months passed, the financial burden grew heavier, and it became clear that continuing was no longer sustainable. Eventually, Gaumer’s Supply closed its doors.

With that chapter behind us, Jean and I turned our eyes once again to Florida.

In January 1977, we packed everything we could into our 1975 Volvo—roof rack overflowing, $400 in cash, and a car payment coupon book tucked in the glove box—and headed south. We had no job lined up, no place to stay, and no one at Christian Retreat expecting us. We didn’t even have a hotel reservation. Still, we believed God would provide. That faith carried us—at least for the first three days.

By the third day, doubt crept in. With no job, no permanent housing, and dwindling funds, we began to question whether we had misunderstood God’s direction. We packed up, ready to return to Pennsylvania while we still had the means.

Before leaving, we decided to say goodbye to Gerald Derstine. We found him working on the platform in the sanctuary. After we shared our situation and plans to leave, he encouraged us to stay, assuring us that things would work out. He even offered us a temporary room in his home. Just then, the person in charge of housing rentals on the conference grounds happened to walk by. After a brief conversation, we learned that a mobile home had just become available—for two weeks. We gratefully accepted.

Two days later, Jean found a job in the conference center’s kitchen. It wasn’t what we expected, but it was exactly what we needed.

The Launching Pad . . .

Growing up in rural Pennsylvania, my large family was deeply involved in the life of Becker’s St. Peter’s Church, a small Lutheran congregation. From an early age, I, like the rest of my family, participated in various church activities. After Jean and I were married there, we took on the responsibility of leading the youth group.

We had just celebrated our third wedding anniversary when my older sister invited us to attend a special evangelistic service at her church. Initially, we questioned what more we could possibly gain from the experience—after all, we were deeply religious. We were always at church, singing in choirs, and engaging in all the activities that kept us closely connected to our congregation.

My sister Arline had married into a Mennonite family, and there was something distinctly different about them. After many persistent invitations from her, we finally agreed to attend church, mostly to appease her. As someone who had always been deeply involved in my own faith, I was confident there wouldn’t be anything new for us to discover. How wrong I was.

For the first time, we truly heard the gospel message. Despite a lifetime spent in church, the message that night was more compelling and convicting than anything I had ever encountered. In May of 1973, Jean and I experienced a profound transformation. We were born again in Jesus Christ, embracing His life within us.

That night marked the beginning of a journey we could never have anticipated, a turning point that changed the trajectory of our lives forever. It was a launching pad into a life of faith that has continued to shape everything that followed.

Beginning the journey . . .

The journey before us was something we couldn’t imagine. We simply had no knowledge of what it meant to follow Jesus and obey Him in His simple gestures to our hearts. Two years after being born again into Christ, we discovered an insatiable desire to serve Him with our lives.

After remaining in the Lutheran church of my family for some time, we found a Mennonite congregation deep in the countryside. They were vibrant and alive with Christ – we thought we entered Heaven. The church was attracting many people like us who were looking for genuine community centered around the life of Christ. By attracting, I mean there were people, many of whom were very young, coming for many miles just to be part of this spirit filled congregation. Everything here was new to us and so life changing in the way we saw life centered in Christ. This wouldn’t last long.

After one year of being immersed in the life of Fredericksville Mennonite Church, we met Gerald Derstine, from Bradenton Florida. He was a childhood friend of our pastor and was invited to speak to our congregation one Sunday morning in the early part of 1975. Gerald’s manner and way of preaching was like watching someone who simply spoke as he was hearing God speak to him. During his Sunday morning address, he mentioned that his ministry in Florida would be starting a school of ministry in April.

The Institute of Ministry would be a ten week course of intense instruction to awaken the gifts and callings of God that were in believers. As he was speaking about the school, we knew we were going to Florida that year. There was no question about it. We voiced our decision to go with a few of our friends and instantly people were placing cash in our hands to make that possible. We didn’t ask! It just happened.

After quitting our jobs, in April of 1975, we were on the road to Christian Retreat Conference Center in Bradenton, Florida. Talk about jumping from a world of everything familiar to everything strange, yet wonderful, was the only way we could describe our experience there. For ten weeks we lived in my sister’s camper while we were immersed in the Word of God surrounded by a group who’s appetite for more was as hungry as ours. This felt like a rapid growth spurt and it seemed like we were flying. We had no job, no place to live except a camper in Florida and no plans for the future. And we had no anxiety either!

We didn’t know it then, but this would become a new normal for us; viz., living in response to God’s leading. It wouldn’t be perfect, but it was always real.

Early Life . . .

Like I said earlier, I came from a large family – the last of ten children. Six girls and four boys.

I contracted polio when I was four and was paralyzed from the waist for a few weeks. I was one of the more fortunate ones!

Since I was handicapped, sports never became a big part of my life. I think in some way, this had a huge impact on me by turning my interests to more domestic household duties, especially cooking.

I started cooking at local diners and fast food chains. Carrols Hamburgers was the predecessor of McDonalds and Burger King. Our hamburgers were 15 cents! You could get a complete meal with fries and milk shakes for less than a buck.

My girlfriend, Jean, and I worked there for most of our high school years. I met her in the 10th grade English class. I sat behind her and soon became very good friends. We were married 2 years after graduation, because that’s what you did back then. She and I both came from a background steeped in a food culture.

We lived to eat!

By the time we were married at 19, we both had a firm grip on certain culinary skills. For instance, she made our wedding cake for 125 guests. 

The base was a large 18 inch double layer cake with three smaller layer cakes on top with columns and a first year anniversary cake on top with a huge floral piece. I don’t know why she is smiling here and I’m not! It looks like I was nervous. Much of what we enjoyed as a young couple would follow us into life. We had no idea of where that would take us.

Stay tuned for more . . . 

Growing Up in Berks County, Pennsylvania

A Blend of Tradition, Food and Nature

Berks County, Pennsylvania, is a place where the beauty of rural landscapes meets the warmth of small-town charm. Growing up here, I was surrounded by rolling hills, sprawling farmlands, and a strong sense of community that shaped my childhood and instilled in me a deep appreciation for the simpler things in life.

           Pinnacle on the Appalachian Trail

Berks County is steeped in history, with its roots dating back to the early days of America. The area is known for its Pennsylvania Dutch heritage, which has left a lasting imprint on the culture, architecture, and even the local dialect. As a child, I was always fascinated by the old stone farmhouses and covered bridges that dotted the countryside, each one telling a story of the past.

The Pennsylvania Dutch influence was particularly strong in the food we ate. Dishes like scrapple, apple butter, and shoofly pie were staples at family gatherings, and I can still remember the aroma of a pot of chicken pot pie simmering in the kitchen on a cold winter day. These traditional foods were more than just meals; they were a connection to our heritage, passed down through generations.

One of the greatest joys of growing up in Berks County was the abundance of nature all around me. The forests, mountains and rivers provided endless opportunities for outdoor adventures. Some of my earliest memories involve hiking with my dog, Lassie, exploring back trails, and discovering the beauty of the natural world; my playground.

I grew up in a large family, which was not uncommon, but typical. Born the last of ten children to parents who were themselves children of large agricultural families. Large families were seen as an asset; something very necessary to manage all the different chores and hard work that comes with that lifestyle.

Berks County is a place where traditions are valued, and the community is close-knit. Local events like the Kutztown Folk Festival and the Reading Fair were annual highlights, bringing people together to celebrate the area’s culture and heritage. These gatherings were a chance to connect with neighbors, share stories, and enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

Growing up, I was also surrounded by a strong sense of community. Many of the people I knew were involved in local churches, volunteer fire departments, or community organizations, always willing to lend a hand when someone was in need. This spirit of helping others is something that has stayed with me and influenced how I see the world.

The schools in Berks County provided a solid foundation, not just academically but in terms of values as well. My education was enriched by the local history and culture that were woven into our studies. Field trips to places like the Daniel Boone Homestead or Hopewell Furnace brought history to life, allowing me to see firsthand the legacy of those who came before us.

As I grew older, my curiosity about the world beyond Berks County began to grow. But no matter where my travels have taken me, the lessons I learned and the values I developed during my childhood in Berks County have remained a constant guide.

Looking back, I realize how much growing up in Berks County has shaped who I am today. The sense of community, the connection to nature, and the respect for tradition that I experienced during my formative years are all integral parts of my identity. Berks County taught me to appreciate the small things, to value hard work, and to always stay connected to my roots.

Even now, when I return to visit, there’s a comforting familiarity to the rolling hills, the historic buildings, and the friendly faces that welcome me home. Berks County will always hold a special place in my heart, not just as the place where I grew up, but as the foundation of the person I’ve become.